I DO IT, YOU DO IT , HE DOES IT, SHE DOES IT, WE ALL DO IT!

Okay this one may get a few haters but as usual ama keep it real and bring it to you. Now i know there are some people who are gonna pull the trust and honesty cards but we all know the facts.
So what am i ranting on about...welll...Googling an ex or current partner or stalking their Facebook profiles.
Well i was telling my girlfriend how i googled my ex..luckily when you google him you come up with more than social networking sites and she found me unbelievable and the act unfathomable. My defence..i want to know. Don't you guys ever want to know whats up, what more is there, are you never curious.
Oh well call me curious milan..i googled.. and i found some pretty impressive things too bad in africa flow of information is not as good as western world so i don't know if he was ever arrested or his school performance but am praying for information rely to improve so that what people won't tell you...... you find out.
Well me and Mr. X broke up(not because of the googling you jumper to conclusions...other issues) but he was still my facebook friend and then it was his turn(Now you know even guys do this so is not women's nosy nature), he confessed he use to check my profile and my pictures , if i was tagged with another guy he would ask me who he was to me...well i enjoyed the attention and obession but it got a little to old and trying, knowing someone is monitoring your every FB move. So what did i do? You know home gal don't jokes...BLOCK THIS PERSON.
He was furious till now he hates me for it but it was better to stick to phone conversations and direct meetings.Now don't be judging the tatics and power play of our relationship. You think me and him were bad, well at least we knew we stalked each other on web.
There is a girl i know who formed a whole new profile filled it with mutual friends and then tried to woo her own boyfriend to see how far he goes with the internet fantasy...what did he do? The fool fell for it and went to meet his new chic for a sexcapede only to find his current..BUSTED..i think you don't need me to finish that one.
Now if your dumb enough to have you love's name as a password..best believe she/he is logging in as you and chatting up all your friends of the opposite sex or checking your inbox.
If your a novice to this i have an IT friend who can hook you up with some password decorder series and your set.(Ha ha ha haha ha- no thats not my evil laugh of converting you..am just laughing at the fact i got a hook up for such..God am such a skeptic.)
Technology is vast..the play has moved from phone checking to facebook stalking and googling...This is the millennial generation..Generation Net...what happens in cyber doesn't not stay in cyber its bought to real time with real consequences and real people.
So best believe....googling, facebook stalking..I DO IT, YOU DO IT , HE DOES IT, SHE DOES IT, WE ALL DO IT!

BROS OVER WHORES???????

So i was talking to this boy pal of mine and i was like don't boys have a code like girls do about relationships. Its common knowledge to girls that you never ever date your friends ex and you never let any man come between you two and so i was wondering if boys had the same code too. He told me that p***y is p***y and that you don't c**k block your homeboys unless the boy truly likes the girl and sees her as wifey material in essence any guy friends girl is up for grabs from the word hi when she is introduced to the buddies. Then it dawned on me why so many of my galfriends have been hit on by the ex's friends and they feel its disgusting whilst the boys think its cool....men are indeed from mars and women from venus!

BREAKUPS

So i broke up with my boyfriend but we still remain friends but he doesn't miss a chance to tell me that i was wrong to dump him. Sometimes i wonder if he is right then again maybe its my desperacy to be with someone because i know for a fact i wasn't happy in the latter parts of our relationships. Why is there pressure to date, have a partner and to marry??????? I don't get it maybe i never will because this is a question asked before me and will probably be asked after me. Anyway am gonna take a deep breath and move on...find me a new man, a new adventure and a new story...can't blog about the same thing everyday can i now?