Okay if your in Africa i think you saw what went down in the Big brother house..we had a little gal on gal action..Lesbian actions.
I am all for expressing oneself however but not sexually on Tv! But since i was not quick to judge and draw the lines and am adventurous and open minded people were worried about me that i may be Lesbo or venture into bisexuality. Well if i did(which i can't coz am a Christian and we are all aware of the Sodom and Gomorrah story)so what?
Personally i believe one's sexual orientation should not be the major issue of judging that person. There is so much more to someone than whether they like men or women. Imagine the world was Gay and you wanted to be straight and the stigma you would receive.
Judging people based on their sexual orientation is just as bad as judging someone based on race, tribe, language and physical disability.
If our politicians, world leaders,friends and heck family(yes i went there, people you interact with everyday) were to come out on their sexual preferences would we fail to acknowledge there contribution to your lives and society? Would we render them no longer fit for society or unable to contribute positively in our lives?
Well am not a lawyer or gay or gay activist am just a human being who feels making other people feel less human is bad.
So to all of you swaying your propaganda in my face and passing judgement and drawing conclusions about me............SPARE ME!
Saturday
Friday
OH HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I told a guy friend of mine am some what of a feminist then he asked me if i hated men. Well last time i checked in the dictionary a feminist was a person who supported equal rights for women not one who hated men but i forgave his ignorance and told him no i just believe women should have equal opportunity like men.
Well this guy whom i thought was so 2010 turned out to be so 1910 when he said that he believes women should study up to o'level and then get married, bare children and thats all..they only need education up to o'level so as to be able to entertain the husband friends and fit in English speaking societies. I looked, eyes wide open and mouth agape and i was like OH HELL NO! and then proceeded with descriptions of him as a male chauvinist and a backward F*****r..(not my best use of my vocabulary but he asked for it).
Why are men even in 2010 so backward in thought? I know its not all men so i would love to send a shout out to my Chocolate brothers who believe in an educated independent women, a successful working wife & mother and a learned partner. But if your a chocolate brother who supports an independent women so that you can feed off her shame on you..and here is your HELL NO!
Now for those backward brothers...stop with your inferiority complex and grow some balls, really! I know your line of thought and to it i say HELL NO!
-A woman's place is in the kitchen...HELL NO..how about you cook me a meal sometime or do the dishes seeing as i don't do that using my privates but my hands.
-A woman's life should revolve around pleasing her husband in bed...HELL NO...what about me and you pleasing me?
-An educated woman can't make a good wife...HELL NO..a man threatened by his wife's accomplishment breaks a marriage with his inferiority complex.
My stand is if your a guy in 2010 and you still think this way please help yourself and change your point of view...get clued in ..see a therapist...do something to change your backward mentality but before then just stay away from me. Oh about my guy friend who stirred all this up well lets say he is no longer on my party invite list.
Well this guy whom i thought was so 2010 turned out to be so 1910 when he said that he believes women should study up to o'level and then get married, bare children and thats all..they only need education up to o'level so as to be able to entertain the husband friends and fit in English speaking societies. I looked, eyes wide open and mouth agape and i was like OH HELL NO! and then proceeded with descriptions of him as a male chauvinist and a backward F*****r..(not my best use of my vocabulary but he asked for it).
Why are men even in 2010 so backward in thought? I know its not all men so i would love to send a shout out to my Chocolate brothers who believe in an educated independent women, a successful working wife & mother and a learned partner. But if your a chocolate brother who supports an independent women so that you can feed off her shame on you..and here is your HELL NO!
Now for those backward brothers...stop with your inferiority complex and grow some balls, really! I know your line of thought and to it i say HELL NO!
-A woman's place is in the kitchen...HELL NO..how about you cook me a meal sometime or do the dishes seeing as i don't do that using my privates but my hands.
-A woman's life should revolve around pleasing her husband in bed...HELL NO...what about me and you pleasing me?
-An educated woman can't make a good wife...HELL NO..a man threatened by his wife's accomplishment breaks a marriage with his inferiority complex.
My stand is if your a guy in 2010 and you still think this way please help yourself and change your point of view...get clued in ..see a therapist...do something to change your backward mentality but before then just stay away from me. Oh about my guy friend who stirred all this up well lets say he is no longer on my party invite list.
YOUR NOT COOL...YOUR SICK
Okay if you have not guessed by now am very opinionated a tad judgemental and very observant. Well i came up with my own concluscions after a friend told me, the fact that i didn't participate whole heartedly in the modern youth culture of sex, drugs and alcohol means am not cool. Well here is ma two sense on COOL.
BOOZERS: Well am not against alcohol, truth be told i love ma merlot and my sangaria and some of my besties are drinkers but some boozers are not cool they are sick. I heard once of a guy who drunk a whole crate of nile beer in a 100,000/= bet...well he was sick..sick of poverty that is. Anyway jokes aside we have heard of the guys or chics who could drink the best drinker under the table and are in bars every other day.I understand social drinking but when you need to drink or you think drinking is cool then your sick..depression, low self esteem, mild sucide tendencies/wanting to escape(coz why you would drink to black out from liquor daily don't make sense).
GANJA:Am all for the legalization of marijuana especially since its a suppressant to cancer treatment related side effects but when it becomes a regular thing..one joint for the club, one joint at the club, once joint for work, just one for...then its an addiction. The need to be on that constant high and to escape from reality and go to ' a better place' well that doesn't make you cool my friend it makes your a drug abuser and a severly depresssed person.
WANKERS AND DOERS: Well the wankers are just sick persons especially when they indulge in pornography...i believe porn wankers have socialization issues and are just wrong. Wankers are not cool they are sick really sick in the mind...so sick that they resort to rape, pedophilia and the like to get that fantasy . The doers, the sex pests: well sex was created by God and that makes it a good thing but just bonking your way round kampala or uganda or the world not so good..its natural instinct to want to bonk and its okay to bonk but really in this day and era of HIV/AIDS one has to be cautious and the fact that one uses sex as a weapon to achieve things or as a symbols of machoism points to something missing not coolness.
Well i know some people may be against my views but they are mine not those of my click or peers and all i have to say get your own and then we can compare notes....other than that before you do something thinking its cool just think of this article.
BOOZERS: Well am not against alcohol, truth be told i love ma merlot and my sangaria and some of my besties are drinkers but some boozers are not cool they are sick. I heard once of a guy who drunk a whole crate of nile beer in a 100,000/= bet...well he was sick..sick of poverty that is. Anyway jokes aside we have heard of the guys or chics who could drink the best drinker under the table and are in bars every other day.I understand social drinking but when you need to drink or you think drinking is cool then your sick..depression, low self esteem, mild sucide tendencies/wanting to escape(coz why you would drink to black out from liquor daily don't make sense).
GANJA:Am all for the legalization of marijuana especially since its a suppressant to cancer treatment related side effects but when it becomes a regular thing..one joint for the club, one joint at the club, once joint for work, just one for...then its an addiction. The need to be on that constant high and to escape from reality and go to ' a better place' well that doesn't make you cool my friend it makes your a drug abuser and a severly depresssed person.
WANKERS AND DOERS: Well the wankers are just sick persons especially when they indulge in pornography...i believe porn wankers have socialization issues and are just wrong. Wankers are not cool they are sick really sick in the mind...so sick that they resort to rape, pedophilia and the like to get that fantasy . The doers, the sex pests: well sex was created by God and that makes it a good thing but just bonking your way round kampala or uganda or the world not so good..its natural instinct to want to bonk and its okay to bonk but really in this day and era of HIV/AIDS one has to be cautious and the fact that one uses sex as a weapon to achieve things or as a symbols of machoism points to something missing not coolness.
Well i know some people may be against my views but they are mine not those of my click or peers and all i have to say get your own and then we can compare notes....other than that before you do something thinking its cool just think of this article.
Thursday
ENVY OR ADMIRATION?
Well today i was in the company of a brain surgeon....hold your horses nothing is wrong with your home galz brain! Okay to be honest something is wrong but not that which needs a brain surgeon, i just met him because of a little car accident and this guy spoke Russian, how did i get to know that, well...details you don't need to know but anyway I was like WOW i have heard French, Spanish, German and Chinese but Russian no!
Now my mind went into rewind and i remembered all those French lessons in primary school and the German ones in F.1 and F.2 and then the 'i wish' demon crept in and i was like, I wish i had done a language longterm coz i would be so much more enlightened and there would be many more people i could speak to with a second foreign language.
Then i thought...yes after the rewind i came to the present and thought...do i admire this guy or envy him. Well i admire him because he has the discipline to learn a new language stick to it and speak it but the fact that i went into the 'I wish' mode makes it envy because i longed to poses his fluency in a foreign language.
Well i concluded that there is a fine line between envy and admiration and when i search my heart i think i was more an admirer than envious or jealous. Don't believe me okay lemme ask you this, why would your home girl be jealous of a guy who speaks a language which is known for warfare communication and training olympic winners...am neither a war lord nor a sportswoman so.........ADMIRATION!
Now my mind went into rewind and i remembered all those French lessons in primary school and the German ones in F.1 and F.2 and then the 'i wish' demon crept in and i was like, I wish i had done a language longterm coz i would be so much more enlightened and there would be many more people i could speak to with a second foreign language.
Then i thought...yes after the rewind i came to the present and thought...do i admire this guy or envy him. Well i admire him because he has the discipline to learn a new language stick to it and speak it but the fact that i went into the 'I wish' mode makes it envy because i longed to poses his fluency in a foreign language.
Well i concluded that there is a fine line between envy and admiration and when i search my heart i think i was more an admirer than envious or jealous. Don't believe me okay lemme ask you this, why would your home girl be jealous of a guy who speaks a language which is known for warfare communication and training olympic winners...am neither a war lord nor a sportswoman so.........ADMIRATION!
Wednesday
EVIL DOERS IN HOLY PLACES
So youl girl has been nourishing her brain with some reading hence being lost. Now i have nothing against mills and boons and the Danielle steel crew but i prefer reality to fiction so i chose to read a book based on misuse of religion titled 'Not without My Sister'.
Okay this book is craaaaaaazzzzzzzzzyyyyyyyyy this guy starts a cult losely based on religion where his belief is that love is the answer and we should all love ourselves and the ultimate expression of love is sex. This individual advocates for sex and sexual acts to be conducted amongst adults and children, in the presence of children and with children as young as three years old. WHAT SICKNESS IS THAT?
I believe these people deserve death as in the capital punishments but that's me. I recently heard of a pastor who raped a three year old, a priest who impregnated a teenage girl and a religious leader who took girls from the village under the guise of educating them abut instead used them as prostitutes.
Why are these things happening in our society and why are we not doing anything about them? Well am not surprised since i also heard of a top government official signing off adoption papers for a young child to go with missionaries for 'a better life' but a week after, the child's corpse was found undeclared with no vital organs in a South African hospital.
Well needless to say this lack of protection of our children by the people meant to be protecting them bothers me and am up in arms about it but first things first...reality in the real world is harsh enough don't need to read it in a book so pass me Hollywood Wives or a Sidney Sheldon.
Okay this book is craaaaaaazzzzzzzzzyyyyyyyyy this guy starts a cult losely based on religion where his belief is that love is the answer and we should all love ourselves and the ultimate expression of love is sex. This individual advocates for sex and sexual acts to be conducted amongst adults and children, in the presence of children and with children as young as three years old. WHAT SICKNESS IS THAT?
I believe these people deserve death as in the capital punishments but that's me. I recently heard of a pastor who raped a three year old, a priest who impregnated a teenage girl and a religious leader who took girls from the village under the guise of educating them abut instead used them as prostitutes.
Why are these things happening in our society and why are we not doing anything about them? Well am not surprised since i also heard of a top government official signing off adoption papers for a young child to go with missionaries for 'a better life' but a week after, the child's corpse was found undeclared with no vital organs in a South African hospital.
Well needless to say this lack of protection of our children by the people meant to be protecting them bothers me and am up in arms about it but first things first...reality in the real world is harsh enough don't need to read it in a book so pass me Hollywood Wives or a Sidney Sheldon.
MISGIVINGS OF MISS MILAN
I get bored easily and love rebranding so am switching it up(yeah switching it up..been listening to new skool hip hop lately and now am into that swagg style hence the miss). Nway just letting you know so that your in the know.
Tuesday
INFORMATION IN NOTHING OUT
So i bet you thought i was not gonna be back till a month later huh huh got you. I was just too busy looking for work the job hunt is a mean thing especially when you know your not up against better candidates but nepotism, tribalism and technical know who it can really make you a depressed and bitter person but i choose to look for the good in everything. Whilst going for the interviews you obviously research about the company and organisation and alot of information comes to mind like how half or more of our economy is foreign owned, how minimum wage doesn't really apply, how hard it is not to live from pay check to pay check considering these exorbitant taxes. I got so much information and it sat around in my mind and was saved there for future arguments and stories and blackening of my government.
I then thought how many of us get information and do exactly what i did thinking what can i do with the information i got has to do with labor and all its facets in the pearl of Africa so think if we were 1000 people who got this info and we decided to rise up and ask for action to be taken would labor not be treated properly? Think of the information on child mortality, corruption, and all other issues affecting our country that we get and do nothing with. What if we decide to do something with it..this is a generation where information can be put out as fast as you can get it ..can't we then use that to create change and make our country progressive. Ofcourse i hear your refer to us being silenced for standing up but how long shall we suffer? Something has to give coz getting nothing out of this information in our heads other than bar discussion and arguments and blog posts is just not right.
I then thought how many of us get information and do exactly what i did thinking what can i do with the information i got has to do with labor and all its facets in the pearl of Africa so think if we were 1000 people who got this info and we decided to rise up and ask for action to be taken would labor not be treated properly? Think of the information on child mortality, corruption, and all other issues affecting our country that we get and do nothing with. What if we decide to do something with it..this is a generation where information can be put out as fast as you can get it ..can't we then use that to create change and make our country progressive. Ofcourse i hear your refer to us being silenced for standing up but how long shall we suffer? Something has to give coz getting nothing out of this information in our heads other than bar discussion and arguments and blog posts is just not right.
Wednesday
BEATING THE ODDS OR BULL SHITTING
I read somewhere that girls are less likely to start a blog and be persistent with updating it. Well as a girl am here to disapprove, you know your home girl likes beating the odds. I am a girl and to top it off i get bored easily so this is not going to be a walk in the park but i will do it. A man walked on the moon, lame people have walked, women and men worldwide have beaten cancer and by that same belief , faith and dedication I will stick to blogging. My God why does that previous statement make me sound like an inspirational speaker or a bullshitter. Speaking of bull shitting have you ever met people who speak so much crap and actually believe their crap like a 4ft girl convinced and trying to sell you on the idea that her dream to become a model would come true, really.... sorry to bust your bubble but some dreams don't come true especially those involving 4ft catwalk models try else where. And why do we always tolerate bullshitters ...someone stands infront of you telling you a blatant lie or some weed induced tale and you stand/seat there smiling and bearing then. Am a really nice person but one of these days am gong to call someone on their Bullshit. Person will be talking to me and i will scream out BULLSHIT.
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